really?

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So, I think it is time for me to explore this blogger thing. It is appealing cuz I have lots of stuff in my head that has got to come out. And, it seems that when you burden people with it, things can get dicey. Some people are better than others, but the gunk in my head can apparently be quite baffling and even troubling to most people. (myself included) So, this could work. I can spill...and people can read or not read. That's cool. Of course, I am worried that certain people will happen on to it and then I will get long critical letters explaining why I shouldn't feel the way I do. I guess I will risk it, but for those of you who are reading and considering twisting my arm until I have crumpled into submission--and agreed to only write sun-shiny things. Watch out. You very well may show up in this blog.

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Unknown said…
Someplace I once heard, "Feelings aren't facts - they just are." I hope I wasn't the one you thought would tell you not to feel the way you do. I am really going to enjoy your blog.
July 15, 2007 at 6:42 PM
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