YAY for 2011

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I am excited. We're beginning a new year.

I've felt a lot of loss this past year, but I am realizing that with each loss, or hurt that I am gaining something within myself, and I kinda like it. I'm stronger, braver, happier and more content than I have ever been. And a large part of getting there has been acceptance of who I am and who others are. Letting go of what I wish I were or what others were.... It's quite liberating.

I am beginning to trust my own instincts and not look to other people to confirm whether or not I am "ok". And since I am not spending all this energy on trying to present myself to each person in the way I believe they want me to be, rather just BEING ME....I have more energy for being present in all my relationships. It sounds so simple...and it is amazing. Happy New Year!

Looking forward to writing more this year....

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Unknown said…
Happy New Year to you too Debby. I hope 2011 brings you much happiness!
December 31, 2010 at 1:14 PM
Karen said…
I am going to "keep your feet to the fire" on sticking with the blog. I really enjoy your writing - and wish you would do it LOTS more! 2011 is going to be the best year yet!

Happy New Year and I hope it is filled with lots of health and happiness!
December 31, 2010 at 1:39 PM
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